Sitemap - 2023 - Everything is Liminal

The importance of documenting your life

The art and cringe of self promotion

On quitting something I loved and returning to it 32 years later

Saying goodbye through a pandemic window

An end to a career

The invisible struggles of breadwinning women

How an iconic American dessert wove its way into our Korean American Thanksgiving

Witches, aging, and menopause

The friendship recession

A love letter to New York

Slowing down doesn't mean getting left behind

Growth is a long-tail journey

Was Gen X the last generation to have a carefree childhood?

The end of summer, and the first of many lasts

Calgon, take me awayyyy! When motherhood puts you over the edge.

Everything is a perimenopause symptom

Starting over, at the very bottom

A blueberry summer: stories from an art school dropout Ep2

Midsummer's melancholy

Can I wear this? What is age-appropriate fashion anymore?

When to let a business go

How many social platforms do we really need?

Dismantling grind culture—it ain't easy

Age fluidity, bathroom habits, and the fabulous fashions of Korean ajummas

On this Father's Day, a story about wigs, a story about New York

What ever happened to lazy summers?

Burnout should not be the baseline

On the aftermath of suicide

What happens when you put two insomniacs in a room?

Decoupling

Eat pay leave. It's not that complicated.

A prologue to a trip. You're putting what in your suitcase?

I'm going back to Korea! Forty years later...

The trauma of immigration, and the story behind a name

Springing forward and one step back

How much we spent on a month's worth of dinners in February

Aging gracefully in the face of ageism

Reverse gender roles in the kitchen

The end to a long, covid-era hibernation

I'm not a writer, but I play one on the internet

The last conversation with my father

Is blogging back? Reflections on my two months on Substack

48 hours in America

The many phases of empty nesting

The year of possibilities

My mom wrote a book, and hilarity ensues when she has a book party